i'm not stupid. i know what a date is. i just don't know the level of effort i should be putting in. if nothing's supposed to change, it would be a pretty low level, right? something like sharing a burger or hanging out playing video games. but those things aren't special at all, he'll think i don't care or am a total failure at this stuff. but if i put too much effort in, like make a full homecooked meal for him or take him out for a picnic and a bike ride and stargazing or something, he'll think i'm trying too hard or i'm not being casual enough and it'll be embarrassing
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